In Matthew 26:20–25, Jesus confronted the disciple who would betray him rather than simply pretending that nothing was amiss. A serving leader deals with insubordinate team members; failing to do so neither serves the delinquent nor the team. By announcing the fact that one of his disciples would betray him, Jesus served the best interests of Judas by giving him a chance to reconsider and repent. He conveyed love for his betrayer by not publicly exposing and shaming him by name. Jesus also served the best interests of his disciples, preparing them for an act of treachery that would disband their group. With advance notice of the challenges facing their team, they could begin formulating a response. Jesus did nothing to stop Judas from carrying out his dastardly plan. He accepted the choice of his disgruntled follower rather than coercing him to change. Jesus warned the wayward and positioned the others for the future.

Lead, love, and serve, like Jesus!

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KEY QUESTIONS: Is there someone I need to lovingly confront for the sake of everyone? Are there some issues that “take care of themselves” or should I always acknowledge, investigate, and deal with issues of conflict?