In my last post I discussed the practice of suspending judgment. We now turn to respecting on the advocacy side of dialogue (diagram here).​

The advocacy side of dialogue focuses on respecting everyone while voicing your opinions and ideas. Respecting all means attributing positive motives and constructive intent to each participant. Truly appreciate all that is good about them, all that you share in common with them, and all that they can contribute. Be aware that we too often focus on minor issues that divide us rather than considering first our shared values and all that is favorable.

So acknowledge each person's dignity, legitimacy, worth, and humanity. Point out what you hold in common. Allow for differing viewpoints and learn all you can from each person. This will require you to remain humble. Accept that they can teach you and that you can learn from them.

In my next post I will discuss the final practice of voicing on the advocacy side of dialogue.