The first key in the art of peacemaking is to walk in humility. Jesus was a perfect example, evidenced by his entrance into our world. Angels at his birth proclaimed: “‘This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.’ Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, ‘Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests.’” (Luke 2:12-14)

Consider an all-powerful sovereign God bringing us peace—reconciling us back to himself. What could be more nonintimidating than appearing as a fragile, vulnerable baby? Jesus assumed a most humble posture in bringing us peace.

So how might we follow his example? Philippians 2:5-8 records: “Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus: who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death—even death on a cross!”

First, don’t be presumptuous and power up over someone even though you might be in a higher position. (“…in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of others.” Philippians 2:3b-4)

Second, do not become demanding. Jesus’ motive was always to help, not to hurt, whether in speaking truth or acting upon his mission from the Father.

Third and finally, take on the role of a servant. Do not become self-seeking. The Living Bible states Philippians 2:6-7 this way: “Who, though He was God, did not demand and cling to His rights as God, but laid aside His mighty power and glory”. Lay aside your perceived rights for the good of others. Assume a posture of humility and walk as Jesus walked.