Entreating vs. Coercing

Luke Kuepfer • Jan 17, 2018

A Serving Leadership Insight from the Life of Jesus Christ (Matthew 23:33–39)

In Matthew 23:33–39, Jesus expressed a lament at the rejection he faced, similar to that of the many others who attempted to positively impact people. He described the consequences with a heart of sorrow, longing for the day when they would welcome him with the words, “Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord.” Serving leaders share these two responses when affronted: 1) A definition of the reality that awaits those who reject the truth, and 2) A word of hope that the future holds for those who acknowledge the error of their ways, change their minds, and position their hearts to receive truth. Both responses are based on serving others, having their best in mind. Serving leaders entreat rather than coerce. Jesus implored them to reconsider with these words, “How often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, and you were not willing.” He cared, he hoped, he loved.​

Lead, love, and serve, like Jesus!

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KEY QUESTIONS: How does confrontation or rejection affect me? What type of response would keep me focused on serving others while not losing hope? When is my leadership more coercive than invitational?

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